Beating a bully

Funny thing about bullies is that their power comes from the silence of the ones they bully, annoying more than funny really. The trick to beating a bully is to expose them yet the fear that they create forces the bullied to regress and keep it a secret.

I know the handy work of bullies first hand, I was their canvass on which they worked their art. There was a stigma society placed on the bullied, weakling, fearful, not adequate, stupid, not fitting, these were some of the words that came my way yet I was the one who was being kicked around. Double kick in my book, that is what I call kicking a men when he is down. You would have thought that society recognizes that they are some who have a low self esteem and need to be cared for and uplifted, no, society shunned the weak and glorified the bully.

There is no single solution to deal with a bully, the first thou is to call them out. Bullies come in different fashions, sizes, shapes and through different actions. Some emotionally bully people, some do it in a more professional manner you would have no idea you are being bullied until someone else sees it and tells you. You have to know your rights to stand your ground and deal with the bully, you have to be secure in you to deal with bullies.

The traditional bully is in schools among our kids, the less traditional bullies in other social settings are hard to see so let speak to parents. Talk to your kids, make them know that it is okay to call out bullies. Kids want friends and sometimes they can take a beating just to make the friend, have a conversation with your kid because that is one of the ways to beat the bully. If you kid is the bully, well I guess you need Help, I would prescribe Jesus to you.

Bullies can be beat by those involved and engaged in what their kids do, those who seek to know how their kids spend their time at school and how they interact with their friends. I am not asking that you Police your kids activities but that you know enough when something is not right. Kids do not have to hang theirs heads in shame from being bullied, they do not have to take their lives because of bullies, talk to your kids and a beat a bully.

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